[03:14pm] Hiya all... been a nightmare so sorry I'm late [03:14pm] no prob mon [03:14pm] we be waitin on ya [03:14pm] thats right! [03:14pm] sorry eating [03:14pm] is it raining again Rowdy? [03:15pm] only in my head Bratt [03:15pm] 000000 [03:15pm] Today's Newbie Chat Topic will be "Work with folks.. not against them" [03:15pm] uh oh [03:15pm] lol [03:15pm] Should personal differences get in the way of business? [03:15pm] kool [03:16pm] *** Rowdy changes topic to '~*\!/*~ Welcome to Netsurprise Adult Webmaster chat! ~*\!/*~-- Newbie Chat --Adult Webmasters Only !!! ~*\!/*~ ' [03:16pm] it is wrong to break kneecaps with baseball bats i believe [03:16pm] oh excellent topic [03:16pm] this have anything to do with the bad day perchance? :p [03:16pm] lololololol oke me here [03:16pm] i agree dokk [03:16pm] It's not meant to stir up any "shit" ... just to make people think and act accordingly at times [03:16pm] stuveltje!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! [03:16pm] hya kreeeee rowdy.lol [03:16pm] Bratttttttttttttttttt [03:16pm] Kre8t0r... no.. this has been a mechanical and computer nightmare day [03:16pm] stuveltje!!!!!!!!!!! [03:16pm] huey [03:17pm] hey huey [03:17pm] hey huey [03:17pm] poking eyeballs okay [03:17pm] hahahha oke me laughing [03:17pm] lol [03:17pm] hi all [03:17pm] heeeee dokk [03:17pm] hi stuveltje and huey [03:17pm] late sorry [03:17pm] kick in the shins is fair game too i think [03:17pm] if it is dokk, i have a few that i would like to poke... rofl [03:17pm] farting isn't meant to offend but it does happen [03:17pm] your not the only one huey [03:17pm] but no kicking "the boys" [03:17pm] nooooooo [03:18pm] oke what we talking about [03:18pm] end up with nuts that look like spam slices [03:18pm] Today's Newbie Chat Topic will be "Work with folks.. not against them" [03:18pm] Should personal differences get in the way of business? [03:18pm] ohhh oke, [03:18pm] kre, i don't go for 'that' area, i never hurt what i may need to play with [03:18pm] rowdy: no [03:18pm] just because you hate your boss, doesn't you can't do your work [03:18pm] ahum yess and no [03:18pm] doesn't men* [03:18pm] mean* [03:18pm] unless you go postal [03:19pm] never break your 'toys' [03:19pm] i believe business and personal should be kept as far apart as possible........in most cases [03:19pm] ok everyone... we've all dealt with someone at one time or another that for whatever reason, "got under your skin" a bit ...... now..... would you do business with them or not? [03:19pm] hell no! [03:19pm] kre: i concur [03:19pm] yes when i hate my boss quit , lol. did it twice [03:19pm] lol [03:19pm] noppppppppppppp [03:19pm] i make their life a hell untill they lett me go [03:20pm] rowdy: yes, if they're reliable and offer the solution or whatever; I need [03:20pm] i'd pee in their coffee [03:20pm] hhhhhhhhahahahhahha [03:20pm] Keep in mind, I'm not talking about anyone that did you wrong in any way... just one of those "not click" type of things [03:20pm] trust and honest means alot to me [03:20pm] try working with your bro [03:20pm] that was you in that video wasnt it dokk??!?!?! [03:20pm] yes it was yikes [03:20pm] hmmm [03:20pm] glad i dont drink coffee [03:20pm] :p [03:20pm] i'm demanding astroglide in my next contract [03:21pm] me gallions coffee [03:21pm] ouchhhhh [03:21pm] but i would do business with that person Rowdy [03:21pm] nop me not [03:21pm] not that one no [03:21pm] Rowdy, i think it would all depend on what 'kind' of work i would be doing with this person [03:21pm] but that other one maybe [03:21pm] until the under the skin thing crossed over [03:21pm] bratt: I concur [03:21pm] i don't like anything under my anything [03:21pm] cant stand to help someone I dont like money even if it means I dont either [03:21pm] nop ones crossed my bridge you gone, no trust [03:21pm] 'rhoids [03:21pm] make [03:22pm] yep ven i could make million no way [03:22pm] OK, kind of work.. good point... we're talking internet related work only... no actual physical or even audio meetings [03:22pm] i think Rowdy means someone you dont like on a personal level but have no prob biz wise stuveltje [03:22pm] nop i cant work that way kre [03:23pm] did i win yet? [03:23pm] yeah [03:23pm] congratz [03:23pm] :D [03:23pm] lol [03:23pm] i obnly can work with people i like not dislike even good in bizz [03:23pm] 250 Backyard project points! [03:23pm] me too stuveltje [03:23pm] do you trust this person to carry out a pay schedule Rowdy? [03:23pm] i wouldn't trust 'em to suck my dick [03:23pm] wtg spookyx [03:23pm] j/k [03:23pm] ack [03:23pm] i think there would be certain 'restrictions' on a deal with someone i don't like [03:23pm] OK.. example... a person that posts something that irratates you but is also full of good information.. something like a cacth phrase of theirs... [03:23pm] lol [03:24pm] I have fired models that might have made us alot of money in a year but their attitude in studio was like a cancer rather not work with them and have smooth operation [03:24pm] like 'show me the money' type of thing [03:24pm] hmmm [03:24pm] yup [03:24pm] huey.. that's leaning a bit out of what I am actually referring to [03:24pm] i tell them how i think about them even they dont like it, thats why me make enemies [03:24pm] * dokk shows bratt a buck and a half, a piece of lint and a mooshed mint [03:24pm] hahahha [03:24pm] We're talking a good person here that does good business but just naturally irratates you to some degree... [03:24pm] wooooooohooooo... i would do biznus with ya ANYTIME dokk [03:25pm] craftyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy [03:25pm] hi crafty [03:25pm] Hi Crafty [03:25pm] then bizz is bizz [03:25pm] Rowdy, thats a little diff to me.it has to be some fool like ken or someone i just get a "wrong" feeling about [03:25pm] hi yaaaaaeveryone [03:25pm] I set all my personal feelings aside when doing business [03:25pm] that is a tough one [03:25pm] Thanks for leaving me some sales Stu!!! [03:25pm] hahahahahhaa [03:25pm] what if they tried to kill your sister or something [03:25pm] that'd be fucked up [03:25pm] like the phrase says: Lets get down to business [03:25pm] me get them all crafty wtch me, but i will share [03:26pm] i would definately not do business with them then dokk, unless of course i was the one that paid them to off my sister [03:26pm] =) [03:26pm] understand that spookyx [03:26pm] well yeah in that case you know [03:26pm] Orbitalz .. many folks don't... and to me, it's a shame [03:26pm] you would differ with them but definitely want to do bizz [03:26pm] no i have to trats the people, i have been in several bizz and i know what i am talking about, money makes people evil special alot of money [03:26pm] indeed [03:26pm] i think it depends on how much i wanted the biz too [03:26pm] right [03:26pm] i am a person that can set personal feelings aside for business... if it is a good business deal that is [03:26pm] if you bring your feelings into your business, you're not going to develop a good biz relationship [03:26pm] you might not like bill clinton but he can probably send you some biz [03:27pm] i dont wanna reach my goal over my friends back [03:27pm] The way I see it is simple, if business can be good for both, I can remain civil.. doesn't mean I have to like the person, joke with them or even talk about anything other than something business related. [03:27pm] true [03:27pm] who doesn't like bill clinton?=) [03:27pm] true [03:27pm] like dealing with a bank lol [03:27pm] i like bill clinton [03:27pm] * dokk pours a bud [03:27pm] yikes different for me , if i dont like you , no bizz [03:27pm] =| [03:27pm] you just have to suck it up and do your thang [03:27pm] i think it would be ok as long as i don't have to spend much one on one ... face to face time with that person [03:27pm] -----biting her lip----- [03:27pm] stuveltje, no betrayal here....lol... not talking about doing underhanded things at all [03:27pm] just don't suck up your thang [03:27pm] stuveltje: most women think that way.. [03:27pm] i know, but still i cant do bizz with them [03:28pm] just like "oh my friend doesn't like you, so I don't either, even tho I don't know you" [03:28pm] ackkkkkkkkkk woman thing , juso.lolololol [03:28pm] i have a problem doing biz with really hairy people [03:28pm] sorry its tru tho=) [03:28pm] most women have that mentality [03:28pm] i have a problem with 'really hairy people' too dokk [03:28pm] yikes most women [03:28pm] The reason I broght this up is as you all know, I moderate a few boards and have done so for years at a few different places..... [03:28pm] that's a dangerous statement [03:28pm] now way i have to know you before i do bizz with you, i will follow you and see how you acked and then i know [03:29pm] most women??? hmmm that could get a guy in trouble [03:29pm] stuveltje exactly,i have been burned far to many times [03:29pm] * NevDull reminds self to get back waxed before meeting up with dokk and bratt. [03:29pm] Hahahahaha [03:29pm] lol [03:29pm] "suck it up and make some cash or stand by your ego and lose some cash?" [03:29pm] One of the main requirements for a good "informational" based moderator is to be able to set aside those "personal feelings" that might cause conflicts from time to time.... this made me wonder how many folks actually use the same line of thinking in their business [03:29pm] lol [03:29pm] i shave my tongue, it's ok [03:29pm] amen to that spookys, it my way of knowing people, tdid bizz before [03:29pm] I won't mention any nicks that sound like a shellfish [03:30pm] well, usually when you partner with other companies; you have to sit down and work things out and provide solutions that will help each other out for the success of both businesses [03:30pm] hmmmmmm [03:30pm] hell i have 2 partners, fetish and dan from the horny guy i both trust them [03:30pm] or buy them out [03:30pm] but it takes alot [03:30pm] dokk, heh [03:30pm] we are not talking about TGP partners [03:30pm] long as you trust em you don't have to like em [03:30pm] those things are more basic [03:30pm] i have no tgp partners tgp whats that lol [03:30pm] like a drunk date [03:31pm] stuveltje, I've trusted folks I do not like before... and not trusted plenty that i do like .... lol [03:31pm] part of life in general IMHO [03:31pm] hahaha rowdy, no trust no deal, even it would make me rich, [03:31pm] well if it made me rich....that would be diff.... [03:31pm] the trust is developed by the business, not by your personal feelings [03:31pm] hahahahhaa spookyx , stttttttttttt [03:31pm] just a bonus to find someone you like and trust at the same time :) [03:32pm] nop personal, i have to feel good about you [03:32pm] trust would be a good requirement of all business deals of course....... [03:32pm] spookyx made a bad deal on those stolen cigs [03:32pm] =\ [03:32pm] hahahahahahahhaa [03:32pm] i don't have to like them as much as trust them [03:32pm] even the ones you trust can turn on you [03:32pm] juso we still made a profit [03:32pm] :) [03:32pm] ooh rich is good [03:32pm] yaah..=-) [03:32pm] yep i know that also [03:32pm] that's why trust is developed by the business. [03:32pm] get on one of those tv shows [03:33pm] rich is good i know about that alos [03:33pm] rich is always good dokk [03:33pm] stuveltje, after going to a convention.. you might find yourself being able to say "this person is going to do well.. they're a asshole on a personal level but do good business" LOL [03:33pm] but i nee to know you before bizz, if you fuck up others no bizz with me [03:33pm] wb [03:33pm] hahha wb vcrafty [03:33pm] thank you uthis java thing doesn't like me [03:33pm] use mirc, java sux [03:34pm] know my share of those Rowdy [03:34pm] me like you you know.lololoo [03:34pm] dont have it [03:34pm] it's just a band aid [03:34pm] r u a webmaster? [03:34pm] grin [03:34pm] I think if you look hard enough you can find good people to do bizz with and that you can trust [03:34pm] do i no u? [03:34pm] right on huey [03:34pm] trust takes time [03:34pm] Are you a webmaster? [03:34pm] yeporitalz [03:34pm] im just a playa [03:34pm] Is who a webmaster? [03:34pm] always expect the unexpected [03:34pm] hell what we are talking about lololol [03:34pm] crafty:I'm impersonating someone. [03:35pm] * dokk is a jedi master [03:35pm] Im just a pimp thats webmasters on the weekend [03:35pm] * dokk uses the fork [03:35pm] * NevDull is a Zedi Warrior. [03:35pm] hahahahha [03:35pm] oke brb [03:35pm] i would and am doing business with people i dont really like on a personal level [03:35pm] load another bowl nev [03:35pm] Haven't smoked in 2 1/2 weeks, dokk. [03:35pm] right on [03:35pm] Been eating healthy and going to the gym. [03:35pm] me too [03:35pm] Kre8t0r, bratt don't count;) [03:36pm] smartass [03:36pm] jim told me to quit coming over though [03:36pm] :p [03:36pm] Got to work at 8:00 today, despite not having to be here until 9. [03:36pm] lol [03:36pm] leave bratt alone >:| [03:36pm] I don't want to make todays chat sound like an attempt to change anyones views.... it's just over the last 5 or 6 years of board moderating, I've seen many folks loose out on things ust because of personal trivail type hang ups that really had no place in a business setting.... remember, the trivial and personal together is the key.... [03:36pm] NevDull whats with the clean slate? [03:36pm] don't want karma to kick in? [03:36pm] uh oh [03:36pm] i agree totally Rowdy biz is biz [03:36pm] karamel [03:36pm] Proving a few points to others, and some to myself. [03:37pm] ---trying to figure out who is loosing out and what i missed here------ [03:37pm] NevDull is a slacker gone mad! [03:37pm] back [03:37pm] wb [03:37pm] i guess i am not getting the point ! [03:37pm] Trust your gut instinct almost always but don't let a "finger tapper" bother you either...lol [03:37pm] rowdy makes the good point [03:37pm] it also helps to take a business class [03:37pm] good advise mon! [03:38pm] yes, i agree also, trust your 'gut instinct' [03:38pm] I took Marketing & accounting back in college [03:38pm] yeah yeah and ame [03:38pm] gut [03:38pm] yeah [03:38pm] lol amen [03:38pm] college < * [03:38pm] college women > * [03:38pm] lol [03:38pm] right on [03:38pm] crafty, todays chat was basically a should a person mix personal feelings on trivial irratating factors affect their business decisions/dealings [03:38pm] pervert [03:39pm] =) [03:39pm] hehe crafty lol, bite your tonque [03:39pm] love is in the air [03:39pm] oh [03:39pm] on trivial irratating factors.... [03:39pm] even tho i have been guilty of that myself on a few occasions Rowdy [03:39pm] lol no Stu i was biting my toungue over the question of who couldnt like bill clinton [03:39pm] still try to keep an open mind [03:39pm] hahahahha crafty [03:39pm] i though it was doing biz with more scummy than that [03:39pm] lol [03:39pm] cliton is the man=) [03:39pm] guess that depends Rowdy on how strong those personal feelings are [03:39pm] Kre8t0r, I think we all have at one point or another :) [03:40pm] * dokk points [03:40pm] if you dislike is very strong doesnt matter how good a deal it is somewhere down the line its gonna get tricky if you reallllly dislike someone [03:40pm] sop pointing dokk.lol [03:40pm] woops [03:40pm] sorry [03:40pm] that's not polite [03:40pm] hahahahahhaa [03:40pm] Clinton is a man...ummmmm ok I will give him that ....but little else [03:40pm] ;-)) [03:40pm] Or at least point with your *finger*. [03:40pm] yep crafty i agree, cant help it. [03:40pm] tell it how it is crafty, don't hold it in! [03:40pm] ohhhh nevdull.lol [03:40pm] crafty... was using the example of a "catch phrase someone might use on every post.. posts that also conatined good information ... not ignoring the information just because that person irratated you by always adding in the phrase type thing [03:41pm] dokk is a clinton fan [03:41pm] LOL dokk... oh i am holding back on that one..... we would be here all night [03:41pm] I dislike the Bush adminstration [03:41pm] well kind of but not really lol [03:41pm] i think bush needs to go [03:41pm] and bring back bill! [03:41pm] I like bush. [03:41pm] i would say good info but i will tell the person straught htye suck [03:41pm] gotta ditch hillary [03:41pm] lol [03:41pm] Wine, bush, and song. [03:41pm] if he marries like carmen electra that'd work [03:41pm] hehehe peace [03:42pm] haaah [03:42pm] I want to see Bush fight Mike Tyson [03:42pm] lol [03:42pm] haha ok? [03:42pm] ok hard as it is for me to ignore any Bush bashing....gonna try this for now! Rowdy you mean someone I dont like posts something good that I might need and I ignore the information cuz I dont like the person??? [03:42pm] hehe [03:43pm] ewwwwww you like bush? [03:43pm] Bite your tongue if it will make you money. [03:43pm] ewwwwwwwww [03:43pm] lol [03:43pm] lol [03:43pm] nooooooooooo wayyyyyyyyyy [03:43pm] well.. that was an example crafty.. yes... I wasn't talking about "Strong" feelings.. just minor irratations :) [03:43pm] Bush is selfish [03:43pm] geeezzzzz Where is SecMan when I need him!!! [03:43pm] all he cares about is fat cows and ugly turtles [03:43pm] i got alot of irritations.loland still tell them so me stu bitch to most [03:43pm] oh well that would be just stupid no matter how much you disliked anyone [03:43pm] * NevDull is reminded of the bumper stickers for the Dukakis campaign. "Lick Bush in '88" [03:43pm] aw turtles are cute [03:44pm] if they post information that does my pocketbook good then i sure wouldnt ignore it! [03:44pm] I want a hedgehog :( [03:44pm] smoke weed dokk?? where turltles [03:44pm] lol [03:44pm] tell me.lololololol [03:44pm] * dokk can't point [03:44pm] hahahahahhaha [03:45pm] ;-)))) [03:45pm] You can, just not with your winky anymore. [03:45pm] ouchhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh [03:45pm] oh man [03:45pm] oh the pain [03:45pm] hit him dokk [03:45pm] i can't [03:45pm] my winky [03:45pm] lol [03:45pm] well with your fist you can [03:45pm] it's holding my winky [03:45pm] rowdy: are you guys planning to launch an AEN system? [03:45pm] lololol [03:45pm] AEN? [03:46pm] ? [03:46pm] lol [03:46pm] again [03:46pm] Adult Entertainment NEtwork [03:46pm] ohhhhhhhhhhhh [03:46pm] aka. AVS [03:46pm] aphrodesiac extrication network [03:46pm] okkkkk i get it now this is Newbie Political Chat I can see ya'll reallllly need some guidance!!!! [03:46pm] Cowboys Rule! [03:46pm] rotf [03:46pm] go cowboys! [03:46pm] lol [03:46pm] ok... now "yuou guys"? but no .... nobody I am associated with is to my knowledge at least [03:46pm] haaa crafty [03:46pm] rowdy: is that a yes ;) [03:47pm] hee me gonna drop my parents are her and my kids still upwith marsmellows on the fire place, me goooooooooo [03:47pm] ok, let me rephrase, will cecash eventually have a AEN (AVS) ? [03:47pm] thought i was gonna get some get rich advice in here......come in and see bill clintons name I know that I am in the wrong place to make money!! [03:47pm] smores [03:47pm] didn't see a yes there... actually saw a "no to my knowledge" on the subject :) [03:48pm] :) [03:48pm] lol [03:48pm] yes to what , damn you keep me here [03:48pm] clinton keeps it real [03:48pm] ok... ummmm... not to my knoweldge .. doesn't mean they won't ... just means I don't know anything about it :) [03:48pm] clinton suck s [03:48pm] =) [03:48pm] you guys should make an AVS [03:48pm] Don't mind Orbitalz, he's had tee many martoonis. [03:48pm] rwdy can I ask you a newbie paysite question [03:48pm] and make it have nice graphizx like urentdvds [03:48pm] oh nice rowdy get me confuse late evening [03:49pm] bring back dick nixon [03:49pm] yup we need tricky dick now! [03:49pm] OMG [03:49pm] * NevDull has a tricky dick [03:49pm] lol [03:49pm] Dick Tracey? [03:49pm] crafty is going insane lol [03:49pm] Do you love dick crafty? [03:49pm] stuveltj... "confused" is part of my world.. welcome to the insanity of it all :) [03:49pm] me??????????????????? [03:49pm]