Newbie's Guide to Chatrooms & Board
Posting
by Bestat,
Exclusive Content
I remember when I first starting frequenting Adult Webmaster boards and some of
the terminology and shorthand posters used, confused the heck out of me! It
also took me many months of "lurking" (reading the boards but not posting) to
learn some of the proper and improper ways to post. When you are new to posting
or attending chat rooms the experience can be very intimidating, say the wrong
thing and your first impression can follow you forever. So I thought I would
put together a small guide to at least take some of the mystery and uneasiness
out of the experience for those of you who have yet to take the plunge.
- Symbols, also known as webmaster
shorthand
When you are in front of your keyboard 8 to 20 hours a day,
you learn very quickly to get your point across with as few keystrokes as
possible. Here are a few of the more common symbols used and their meanings. Be
aware there are far too many to list here, and new ones are being created all
the time, so if you don't understand one in a chat, be sure to ask!
AFK
- Away From Keyboard AISI - As I See It ASAP - As Soon As Possible
B4N - Bye For Now BAK - Back At Keyboard BBFN - Bye Bye For Now
BBIAB - Be Back In A Bit BBIAF - Be Back In A Few (minutes) BBL - Be
Back Later BEG - Big Evil Grin BFN - Bye for Now BTW - By the
Way FYI - For Your Information GMTA - Great Minds Think Alike IC -
I See IMHO - In My Humble Opinion J/K - Just Kidding KISS - Keep It
Simple, Stupid L8R - Later LMAO - Laughing My Ass Off LMHO -
Laughing My Head Off LOL - Laughing Out Loud LTNS - Long Time No
See LTNT - Long Time, No Type PPL - People ROFL - Rolling On Floor
Laughing ROFLMAO - Rolling On Floor Laughing My Ass Off TTFN - Ta Ta
For Now TTYL - Talk To You Later WB - Welcome Back WTF - What The
F***? WTG - Way To Go! YW - You're Welcome!
As I stated, this
is just a partial list, but it should come in handy the first few times you are
in a chat room. You will be surprised how quickly you will get a handle on the
symbols as well as the flow of the chat. Remember these chat rooms are made for
us to go in and swap ideas, discuss things, and learn more about the business
and the people in it. So there is no reason to be shy or hesitant, get out
there and Network!
- Web Master Boards
Ok, some of the boards
out there can be very challenging and you should never judge all boards by the
others. There are almost as many web master boards out there as there are
webmasters so be sure to read many of them on a regular basis to get a feel for
what those particular boards are like. Some boards are more geared towards the
seasoned webmaster and tend to be more an exchange of opinions than a place to
have questions answered. There are other boards dedicated to the new webmaster,
where questions are not only welcome they are encouraged! So you should visit
as many as you can as often as you can so you can tell which boards are right
for you. It is also a great way to get to know who is who in the business and
what area of the business they are in. This way if you have a specific question
about TGP's for example, you will have a better idea who to address the
question to.
Once you have chosen which boards you wish to start
posting on (and you should chose more than one!). Your first post should be an
introduction of yourself and what you do, or wish to do in the business. Be
careful here, you do not want your post coming over as Spam! Go with something
simple, like; "Hi, my name is Bart and this is my first post here, though I
have been reading the board for sometime. I like the community here, and hope
to be a part of it, and learn more about (insert your interest here) from all
of you." This lets the other posters know your name, what you are interested in
and gives them the opportunity to post back to you with hello's, welcomes and
perhaps some questions. This gives you the perfect opportunity for your next
post! Thanking them for the welcome, answering their questions, etc. After
that, it is just a matter of asking questions, answering other the questions of
others when you can, and getting in on the general discussions. If you do have
something you wish to promote, or a URL you want to get out for people to see,
then use the taglines offered on most boards. This is an acceptable form of
spam as it were and you can be creative with these taglines, promoting
specials, sponsors etc. Until you have become established in a community and
have a very good idea of what is tolerated, keep your posts simple and free of
self promotion.
On many boards you will witness some webmasters
getting into arguments or "piss" matches on the boards. Some of these are
staged for the benefit of the pissers to get notice and some are legitimate
arguments about subjects they disagree on. If and when you feel strongly enough
about something to take issue with it on the boards, it should be a debate of
issues and not a personal attack. Be wary of what you say to whom, as the
webmaster could very well be in a position of importance the next time you run
across him or her! It is perfectly fine to debate your side of an issue on the
boards, but if you have a complaint or disagreement with someone particular or
a sponsor, the discussion should NOT be on the boards but via email, or even
better telephone! You will not do yourself any favors going to the board about
a dispute, there are always other, more beneficial avenues you can take. If you
cannot resolve a problem with a person or sponsor yourself, email someone you
know and trust who may be in a position to help or at least advise you. If you
take such a problem to the boards, you will always look like the "bad guy" for
taking it public.
The webmaster boards and chat rooms are a
fantastic source of information, networking, and relaxation. If something is
going on in the industry, the boards are the place you will normally hear it
first! You can utilize the boards to your benefit for knowledge, advertising,
marketing and friendship. But if you do not post or participate, we are not
going to know you are there!
See you on the boards!!
Bestat is the owner of
Exclusive Media Group, which encompasses
Exclusive Content, a content service provider that
specializes in Anime/Hentai and Comic Feeds content; as well as Exclusive
Partners, a Webmaster program for several niche Pay-sites and an Adult Product
line.
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